Family Strife at the Jubilee Who and Why Snubbed the Duchess of Alba Tribute

In 2026, Spain celebrates the centenary of María del Rosario Cayetana Fitz-James Stuart y Silva—the legendary Duchess of Alba, whose name is synonymous with aristocratic grandeur and the country’s rich cultural legacy. To mark the occasion, a series of large-scale events has begun in Seville honoring the memory of one of the most famous women of the 20th century. However, the inaugural ceremony, held within the majestic walls of the Real Alcázar, was overshadowed by the absence of several family members—a fact that did not go unnoticed by either the public or the press.

The presentation honoring the duchess was attended by Cayetano Martínez de Irujo, his wife Bárbara Mirjan, his brother Fernando, and the duchess’s widower Alfonso Díez. Yet the real focus fell on those who were absent: Eugenia Martínez de Irujo and the current Duke of Alba, Carlos Fitz-James Stuart. Their absence triggered a wave of speculation about fresh tensions within the renowned family.

Reasons for the Absence

Contrary to expectations, Cayetano Martínez de Irujo did not shy away from uncomfortable questions and publicly explained why his brother and sister were unable to attend such a significant event. According to him, the event was originally scheduled for January 14, but the date was then moved to the next day. As a result, Carlos was forced to remain in Madrid due to commitments at Liria Palace, while Eugenia was also tied up with other matters. “If not for these circumstances, they would be here,” Cayetano emphasized, clearly aiming to dispel any rumors of a family rift.

Nevertheless, his words sounded like an attempt to smooth things over, since he had previously stated he was distancing himself from the family after declining to join the traditional Christmas celebration. This time, however, Cayetano insisted: “Peace in the family has been restored.” He also highlighted that he, Eugenia, Carlos, and Fernando were in charge of organizing the anniversary events, subtly hinting at the absence of another brother—Jacobo, Duke of Siruela.

Memory and legacy

In his speech, Cayetano Martínez de Irujo not only offered explanations for the absentees but also fondly recalled his mother. He described the Duchess of Alba as the most significant woman in Spain of the past century, emphasizing her unique ability to combine personal charisma with aristocratic status. He also mentioned her record number of noble titles—she held 53, which earned her a place in the Guinness Book of Records.

Among the entertaining stories, Cayetano shared how his children reminded him of yet another of his mother’s ‘records’—her last marriage, which took place after she turned eighty. He also recalled how people still approach him to share how the Duchess helped them pay off their mortgages. According to Cayetano, his mother had an ‘imperial mindset’ and always relied solely on herself, managing her ‘small imperial’ estate with a firm hand.

Cultural symbol

The Duchess of Alba has long been not only an aristocratic icon but also a symbol of Andalusian culture. This was highlighted by Andalusia’s Minister of Culture and Sport, Patricia del Pozo, during her speech at the presentation. Over the coming year, to mark the centennial of the Duchess, there will be exhibitions, publications, themed meetings, and even special events at the famous Seville Fair. The centerpiece of these celebrations will be the Real Alcázar, where the centenary program was launched.

As head of the organizing committee, Cayetano Martínez de Irujo announced a wide range of major events, from flamenco shows and conferences to a large-scale exhibition at the Palacio de Dueñas, the release of the book ‘Homenaje a Cayetana, una mujer irrepetible’, and even a documentary series. Many family members are involved in these projects, which, according to Cayetano, proves that despite their differences, the memory of their mother brings the Alba family together.

Family nuances

However, behind the facade of reconciliation, cracks are still visible. Cayetano admits that not all the siblings are equally involved in preparing for the anniversary. The name of Jacobo, Duke de Siruela, was notably absent from the list of organizers. This has fueled speculation about longstanding disagreements among the heirs of one of Europe’s most renowned aristocratic families.

Nevertheless, the public statements about harmony and collaboration appear to be an attempt to save face and emphasize the anniversary’s importance for all of Spain. Whether the long-awaited calm has truly arrived in the Alba family remains an open question.

RUSSPAIN reminds that María del Rosario Cayetana Fitz-James Stuart y Silva, the 18th Duchess of Alba, was one of the most titled women in the world and held a unique position in Spanish society. Her descendants continue to influence the country’s cultural and public life, while the House of Alba remains one of Europe’s most recognizable aristocratic families.