An evening in the style of the British Regency era in the very heart of Madrid unexpectedly turned into a platform for discussing one of the sharpest topics in contemporary culture—gossip. Against a backdrop of luxurious outfits and the atmosphere of an aristocratic ball, Spanish celebrities openly admitted: talking about other people’s affairs has long ceased to be taboo and has become part of public life. This approach reflects not only changes in social etiquette, but also a growing societal need to share information, even when it concerns the personal lives of others.
As reported by Divinity, the red carpet at the Real Casino de Madrid brought together figures from show business, television, and fashion, who came not only to showcase their looks but also to share their views on the boundaries of acceptable gossip. Many admitted that discussing others is an inherent part of human nature, and sometimes a way to get closer to those around us. Yet, despite the popularity of ‘salseo’, not everyone is willing to accept all forms of such discussions.
Where to Draw the Line
Famous TV presenter Javi de Hoyos, often dubbed the ‘King of Gossip’, noted that for him, it is important not to hide behind anonymity but to discuss things openly and honestly. In his opinion, this approach helps avoid misunderstandings and maintains respect even in the most contentious situations. At the same time, he criticizes those who prefer to remain in the shadows, spreading rumors without taking responsibility for their words.
Among the guests at the event were those who see gossip as a powerful tool, but advise using it wisely. Singer and performer Samantha Hudson believes discussing other people’s affairs can be useful, as long as it doesn’t cross the line or become a means to cause harm. Actor Fernando Gil added that it is impossible to completely avoid talking about others — it’s part of everyday life, especially in close circles.
Loyalty and personal boundaries
Not all celebrities feel the same about making private conversations public. Designer María Escoté and influencer Rocío Osorno admit that discussions among friends are inevitable, but it’s important for what’s said to remain within a circle of trust. This approach helps maintain friendships and prevents gossip from becoming a destructive force in relationships.
Interestingly, even those who don’t mind hearing news about colleagues prefer not to air dirty laundry. For example, Isa Pantoja, upon arriving at the event, immediately asked journalists if they had any interesting news, but made it clear: the main thing is not to get personal or use these discussions as grounds for conflict.
Dangerous boundaries
However, not all attendees saw gossip as harmless entertainment. Actor Raúl Tejón emphasized that talking about others can be the ‘spice of life,’ but he is firmly against malicious comments and criticism of appearances. In his view, it is important to remember the consequences of words and not to destroy someone’s reputation for a fleeting pleasure. He called for distinguishing between friendly conversations and real harassment, which can cause serious harm.
Overall, the evening showed that in Spain, discussing other people’s affairs is considered part of the cultural code, but society is increasingly reflecting on the boundaries of what is acceptable. Gossip can bring people together, but it can also be destructive — it all depends on how and why it is used.
Samantha Hudson is one of the brightest figures on the contemporary Spanish scene. She is known not only for her musical and theatrical projects, but also for her strong stance on freedom of expression and social boundaries. Her views on gossip mirror a broader trend in Spanish society: the desire to discuss important topics openly, but with respect for personal boundaries. Thanks to personalities like Hudson, conversations about communication culture are becoming more frank and honest.
